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| SHUBHMANGAL VADHU VAR SUCHAK KENDRA |
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| About Vadhu
Var Melava |
( Get Together of Brides & Grooms organized by
Shubhmangal from time to time.)
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Get together of eligible Brides & Grooms means for setting
of marriage and providing them detailed information by use of
modern technology for taking decision in short time.
We have been following system for arranging marriages over a long
period of time. We are all aware of that the system is time consuming
and expensive. No doubt some procedures for arranged marriages
are good but some of them need revision in view of present time
wherein Brides & Grooms are busy in various fields and have
to take important decision like marriage based on full and correct
information.
First step of arranged marriages is collection of data of eligible
Brides & Grooms and thereafter arrange their meeting along
with a numbers of relatives on both sides at a convenient place.
Decision in respect of acceptance of the proposal or otherwise
is advised to the other party after a lapse of time and during
that period both the parties have nothing to do but to wait for
the communication. In case it is negative again the same procedure
is followed and therefore it is quite time consuming and in fact
irritating.
To overcome this problem and keeping pace with old & new good
procedure of the
traditional system in the coming 21st century the Shubhmangal
has proposed to organize get together of Brides & Grooms at
a common place after getting required information about income,caste,
height, expectations etc. in advance so that likely match could
be short listed in advance. This helps to reduce time for taking
decision since Brides & Grooms gets introduced and discuss
details with comfort. |
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| History of get together of Prospective Brides &
Grooms Organized by Shubhmangal from time to time |
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Two get together of Marathi speaking Brides & Grooms were
organized by the Shubhmangal at Thane on 6th and 8th April 2009
wherein around 650 Brides & Grooms and 1300 parents/relatives
had participated. This was preceded by large scale advertisement
in major newspapers all over Maharashtra and cost of such advertisement
was around Rs.6 lacs & other expenditure on pendal Lunch,
Breakfast, Snacks & other items was 4 lacs. It was first effort
of the Shubhmangal to organize such a get together on such a large
scale. It was expected that around 1000 Brides & Grooms would
register and participate in the program. In fact only 650 Brides
& Grooms participated and as a result Shubhmangal had suffered
substantial financial loss but the matter of satisfaction for
organizers was that 95% of the parents /relatives and Brides &
Grooms participated & expressed their satisfaction regarding
the purpose of the get together and nice arrangement for success
of the get together. There after a number of inquiries are made
as to when similar get together of Bride & Groom would be
arranged from all corners.
These get together are sponsored by renowned Marathi daily newspaper-Loksatta-and
many newspapers appreciated purpose of the get together and systematic
arrangements made therein. Around 25% of the Brides & Grooms
who had attended the program were married which indicates success
of the get together. In this year we expect that at least 40%
of the Brides & Grooms who attend the get together would find
suitable match & the shubhmangal would feel satisfied that
the efforts taken by it are bearing fruits. With this view in
mind Shubhmangal proposed to organize similar programs at places
like Thane, Navi Mumbai, Vile Parle, Dadar and Pune during the
years.
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| Schedule of Brides & Grooms Get Together in the year 2011-2012
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| Shubhmangal’s proposed get together of eligible Bride
& Grooms in the year 2011-12. In view thereof registration
is on in our office as also with our representatives & online
also. Bride & Grooms who desire to participate in these get
together should give details like name, address, registration
and register their names prior to each scheduled get together.
One should also mention prescribed venue and date and time wherein
he / she intends to participate from time to time well in advance.
The forth coming get together it’s date, time, venue &
for which castes & Brides & Grooms will be announced by
displaying on our website & in the Sunday Loksatta prior to
3 weeks of a scheduled date of future get together of bride &
grooms. |
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| Rules to participate into get together of Brides & Grooms
organized by Shubhmangal |
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During specific time
Bride & Grooms and their parents can discuss among
themselves and also exchange information. Bride &
Grooms and their relatives should satisfy there serves
about the information about the prospective bride &
groom by independent means before finalization of marriage.
Shubhmangal and its directors will not be liable for any
incorrect or incomplete information. |
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Collection and submission of application
forms: Bride & Grooms can download application form
and other details from website www.shubhmangal.net in
Marathi. In case Bride & Grooms desires to get it
through post, an amount of Rs.50.00 should be sent by
money order. Similarly he can obtain application from
the office on payment of Rs.50.00.Full name and address
of the applicant should be clear. Those who have paid
such fees they should submit their applications and required
fees after deduction of such Rs.50.00 and pay the balance
amount in cash/cheque/DD/M.O. In case of difficulties
in downloading application form from website, the Bride
& Grooms should send e-mail on info@shubhmangal.net
and ask for brochure and application form. On receipt
of the e-mail application form will be sent by e-mail.
In case of difficulty in opening website please contact
us over phone / by e-mail. |
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Get together is organized with specific planning and
all are expected to observe the discipline while participating
in the program. Incase of cancellation of the program due
to the reason like natural calamity, strike, bandh, terrorist
attack, bomb blast of similar reasons due to human errors
which are beyond control of the directors/organizers no
refund will be made of the amount made on account of registration
fees and entry fee. |
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On fixation of the program details
like venue, time and date will be published fifteen days
in advance on our website. In respect of proposed get
together. |
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Administration and Discipline: Everyone
will have to maintain decorum of the program by appropriate
behavior and maintaining discipline. Anyone who is drunk
will be barred from entering the hall. Smoking is prohibited
both in the hall and outside. Shouting and talking in
high tone in the hall will not be allowed. Any comment
or suggestion /complaints should be conveyed in polite
way or should be given in writing to the organiser. All
are requested to cooperate for success of the program.
Directors reserve the right of allow/not to allow entry
in the hall for any person. In case of any problem it
will be within the jurisdiction of Thane court only. |
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No one should be under impression
that their marriage will be immediately finalized by attending
the get together by registration for the program or attending
the same. Directors do not give any guarantee of setting
marriage. The main objective of the get together is bringing
interested Bride & Grooms under one roof and make
available information about each so that appropriate decision
could be taken in short time in the interest of all concerned. |
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Confirmation in respect of date,
time and venue of the program: In case of any change in
date, time and venue of the program such change will be
displayed immediately on our website. Those candidates
who have provided number of their mobile will be advised
by SMS. In spite of that Bride & Grooms should be
in touch of our website and our office and acquaint themselves
about latest information and developments. In case of
any loss of the Bride & Grooms on account of not keeping
in touch the management and directors will not be responsible
there for which please note. You will appreciate that
it is not possible to advise every one individually. You
may contact us over telephone and even send a e-mail. |
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Payment of fees: You can deposit
fees in any of the branches of Bank of Maharashtra. For
the purpose you have to deposit fee by cheque for the
credit of account of Shubhmangal as below: Bank of Maharashtra,
Naupada Branch,Thane (West): Code No.: 0110 Current account
Number : 60024328867
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11. A photo copy of counterfoil received by you from the
bank should be sent to us by e mail or by fax after writing
your name and mobile number. You have also to send a photocopy
of the receipt along with your application addressed to
our office by registered post. You may also send the amount
by money order & Photocopy of receipt received from
post office. Such money order could be sent to us along
with application by registered post. Names and addresses
of our representatives are available on our website. You
may go through the same and pay amount with one who is near
to your residence and obtain receipt. You may visit our
office during 10.00 a.m. to 8.00 p.m. on any day of the
week (no weekly holiday) and obtain receipt. |
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Vadhu Var Melave is being organized keeping in mind social
benefit. Each candidate may be able to choose an appropriate
match from among a number of alternatives for his/her life
and have a peaceful life is the main intention of this project.
This could be more meaningful after taking into consideration
past experience and suggestions. This will be possible with
your cooperation. Please therefore take advantage of this
golden opportunity for the benefit of all. |
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